cuckieman:

The Mindset of A Submissive Male

This blog is useful for women that have men that want to be dominated, but are not sure on what they should be doing or saying.

The whole point of wanting to be dominated is not to have the male have to tell you what he wants you to do to dominate him.  Although this is a necessity in the beginning to kind of understand where he is at, after he has told you once, he just wants it to become his life style.

Do not be embarrassed by doing some of these things.  IN fact, make him feel embarrassed about them.  That is the point of domination.

In fact the best way to dominate your man is to make him do things you know he doesn’t want to do.  This applies to both in and out of the bedroom.
If you dominate him by just making him do all the dishes and chores of the house, but you do not dominate him in the bedroom, he will grow tired of fulfilling your needs and missing out on fulfilling his.
Women tend to over complicate things in their head.  They think things like:

Why does he want me to do that?What will happen if I do that?Will he respect me less if I do that?I don’t know if I can do thatThat seems strange, I am not sure I am comfortable with thatIs my man gay?What is wrong with him?

Ladies, here is something that you need to understand.  None of those thoughts matter to a male submissive and worrying about them is just creating problems from you achieving total bliss in your life.

If your man is gay, there is nothing you can do about it anyways.

It is more likely that your man just wants to give control to you, because he is an alpha male, and does not get to experience things like submission.  That is most of the time the case with submissive men.  In their everyday lives, they are very much alpha, in control, and take charge everyday.

When they submit to you, they get to let go of all the responsibility and just do as they are told.  Honestly, subconsciously they are directing you down a proven path of bliss, intimacy, and an open/strong relationship.  They just don’t know how to communicate it.

Done correctly and tied to sexual behavior modification, you can get pretty much anything you want from your man.

I will repeat that.  Done correctly and tied to sexual behavior modification, YOU CAN GET PRETTY MUCH ANYTHING YOU WANT FROM YOUR MAN.  

Is this a bad thing? 

Hurtful to you or him?  

No.  Actually, emotionally, it feels REALLY GOOD!!

The only thing standing in your way of having everything you dreamed is your own head.  Take your man, bend him over, and ride him like the bitch he wants to be for you.

Don’t think about it.  Just do it.  You will see what happens.  He will become more obedient.  He will automatically start doing the chores.  He will ask you what you need.  It does not mean he is gay.  It means he loves you, and wants you to own him.  Deep down, he needs to feel loved, wanted, and being your sex toy for some reason, shows him this more than anything else you could do.
Because truthfully, a TRUE submissive with woman doesn’t care about the specifics if you do this right, or that you do that right.  He cares about you telling him what to do, and him having to comply.

If you want roses, YOU WILL GET THEM !

If you want back rubs, YOU WILL GET THEM !

If you want an orgasm, YOU WILL GET THEM !

If you want to come home to a clean house, YOU WILL GET IT !

Anything you want, you get.  All you have to do is grab the bull by the horns (in this case balls) and tell him to do it.

The only important rule to make all of this work, is DO NOT LET HIM CUM.  If you do, keep it to a minimum.  Having him full of cum, keeps him in a submissive state.  This is where he is happiest when he is with you, and ultimately, with him serving you like a queen, you will have everything you ever wanted.

If you do not feel like a queen, and are struggling with the power he is handing you, there is a saying that rings true in all matters of life.  Feel the fear, and do it anyways.

Everything you want in life is on the other end of your Strapon.  Insert Strapon, wind male up, and watch him serve.

For some Submissives, they may not want pegging, but I can tell that 99% of submissive men crave, yearn, and need it. Stop thinking about why all of a sudden this?

Instead roll with it, and watch your man become a better person.  He will become a better lover that will place your sexual satisfaction above his.  He will become a better contributor to the household chores.  He will become a better listener when you need a shoulder to lean on.  He is not weak in his submission, he is finding a part of himself that is making him a better person.

A person that cares more than he did before.

A person that will do more than he has before.

A person that will live his life in servitude to the woman he loves.

Ladies, a word of caution to you.  If you do not learn to embrace this, other women will, and if any of these type of women every come in contact with your husband and sense the submissive side of him, they will sweep him away faster than you can say goodbye my love.

Once strong men have found submissive tendencies, these feelings will not go away.

It is like the ying to their yang.  They need it, crave it, and want it.  The strong part of them will go after it.  The strong part of them will do whatever it takes.
This is the part where you win.  This is the part where if you give them what they want, their strong part will do your every bidding.  It does not take a weak man to serve fully all the desires of their woman.  In fact, just take a look around and see all the failing marriages where the man simply does not do their part because they are too lazy and self indulgent.

Your submissive man wants no more of this.

He has had a taste of bliss serving you, and if you work with him, and spend some time training him, and fulfill his needs, all of your dreams will come true. 

Dream it, ask it, order him to make it come true, and watch him scramble to make it happen.

Don’t wait for it to happen.  Make it happen by dominating him.  This is simply how easy it is to have the life that previously you had dreamed about.  It just comes with a few kinks in it that you did not see before.  Embrace the kinks ladies.   Your life will never be the same.

femsubdenial:

My Make An Assignment Assignment –  Taking it outside

Pick someplace public where you can sit in the middle of the day like a café, coffee shop, or even fast food joint.  Some place where the minimum wage employees won’t care if you sit for an hour.

Before you leave put on your tight jeans, the ones that ride up. Or panties that will bunch against your clit.  Or even use some shoe laces to improvise a crotch rope with a good sized knot pressing against your clit.

Go to the place you picked, order your latte, take a seat, and start to move subtlety.  Just wiggle your hips side to side a little, clench your thighs tight, ride the seam of your jeans, get some physical contact and stimulation going.  Look around at the other people and picture them knowing what you are doing.  Picture them coming over and letting you ride their fingers.

Get as close to the edge as you can for as long as you can while you sit there and (slowly) drink your coffee.  See if anyone notices as you start to get hot and breathe hard.  Maybe someone on the staff will even come over and ask if you feel okay.

Don’t stop clenching your thighs together just because a stranger is standing there.  If you’re feeling particularly bold ‘forget’ to put on a bra before you go out.  See how hard and visible your nipples get.  Let that 19 year old barista believe he makes the best coffee on earth. 

And if you do fail and cum be sure to leave an extra-large tip for the person who is going to have to clean up the wet spot of your failure.

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Updates:
– Click here to read omniswitch’s first attempt.
– Click here to read omniswitch’s 2^nd and 3^rd attempts.