eveadams01:

Very important question. With difficulty. It’s definitely an issue at times.

It can make concentrating difficult. And it’s something that, in real life, needs to be considered when entering a period of denial.

I deal with it in a number of ways.
I don’t edge in the morning of a work day. And I try to only start edging after work is done for the day.
I know some people will think that’s wrong but in my job I need my head in the game. If I were to lose concentration it could have dire consequences. Not just that things don’t get done.

I am lucky that I own the business and I don’t work a full day so I do have a lot of down time to spend driving myself crazy with need. I also don’t work for 14 weeks a year so I get lots of me time.

But during times of stress and when working at home I keep my edging to evenings or late afternoons or sometimes not at all and aim for no touch when I’m busy. I have to clean up regularly so I’m not distracted by the discomfort of wetness while working.

It’s ok to be uncomfortable and distracted and wet and achy when the things you do are not life or death stuff. But in my life I prioritise edging to times when I feel it is appropriate to walk around in a pink fog. And at work is not one of them.
I also like to spend time at weekends making up for it.

I would love to be a housewife and able to be kept in that heightened aroused state 24/7. To clean and cook and care for your partner while wet and distracted and uncomfortable.

But for me that’s just a fantasy. I have responsibilities and until my knight sweeps me off my feet and ties me to his bed I’ll have to keep being ‘sensible’.